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How To Get Your Spouse Into Swinging

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Swinging is all about having fun as a couple, first and foremost. It’s is a way for a couple to expand their horizons by agreeing that sexual encounters outside (and inside) the relationship are permissible. It is a way for a couple to be a couple while allowing and accepting individual desires and needs. Couples who swing explore their sexuality and their fantasies. These couples can break the chains of jealousy and experience a more passionate and fulfilling relationship, as well as connecting on a deeper spiritual level. Swinging can give them the opportunity to grow as a couple and as individuals.

How can you introduce your spouse to swinging?

You know your partner best. And you know if you can bring it up. The most key fact you need to know is that the swinging Lifestyle is not for everyone. While going in, you should know that they might not go for the idea. Even if it makes perfect sense to you to do it, it might make perfect sense to them not to do it.
Are you an open-minded person? What about your partner? Look for signs. Women usually do the subtle hinting such as talking about other men being good looking. With men, it’s different. Most men want sex with other women, so bringing up this subject to them shouldn’t be all that difficult. Most men, unless extremely jealous and insecure, will jump at the idea of swinging. It’s a fact of life. It’s the way they’re built, so get over it. We wouldn’t want them any other way. Remember, if you don’t ever ask, you’ll never know. No guts no glory. And, you’re not getting any younger.

swinging relationshipOn the flip side, your partner may be waiting for you to bring to subject up first. You never know. More often than not, talking is the best method. Bring it up casually, maybe as a joke, Start dropping the term swinging into your conversations. Ask them casually, if they have ever heard of it or if they know about it. Be aware that they might not know what you’re talking about. It may seem unfathomable, but many people out there haven’t heard of swinging.

Watch their reactions. Do not expect them to be overjoyed at first. Many people are apprehensive. It’s natural. Pay attention to their responses. They may find it threatening. They may be angry that you’d bring up such an idea. Be prepared for this.

Take it slowly. Approach it delicately. But understand there isn’t an easy way to do it. No matter how much you prepare, they may feel as though you’re blurting it out. It may sound good to you but once someone else hears it, it may seem like a slight shock.

Some suggestions:

• Talk about people you find attractive.
• Talk about unrealized fantasies.
• Ask them about their unrealized fantasies.
• Read adult magazines advice columns aloud to them and ask what they think about that
• Tell then a naughty story you heard or made up. (Let your imagination run wild.)

swinging coupleLook for signs. How are they responding? Get it done and move forward. Don’t waste a lot of time preparing to do it. You don’t know until you ask. And you have to ask. If they are warming up to the idea—and you’ll know if they are—go for it. You could ask something like if they have ever thought about having sex with other people. If they are human, they have. They may, in turn, ask the same of you, “Have you?” This is your ticket. Be honest and admit you would like to dare. This would be the time to tell them there is a way to have sex with other people without jeopardizing your relationship. Tell them what you know about it. Things might work out.

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